People believe what they want to believe. Sometimes the truth just seems too far fetched, and sometimes another answer is easier to believe. When the truth challenges a perception of themself, loved ones, or something they hold dear, a person is more likely to reject the truth for any other reason that sounds more palatable.

This girl thought His intention was to return all of the barbarian girls back to Earth. To her, that sounds like He doesn’t understand that some of them may have decided that they prefer life on Gor as a slave, harsh and beautiful, to life on Earth.

To a certain extent, she sees imagination as imperative to even conceptualize something outside of the relationships seen everyday. To be able to know that there should be something else, then look for it… This one is very much a geek, but more in an academic sense than technologically. Men prefer girls who can talk to Them in the hours before and after sex; while sex is an important way to connect, a relationship built on just that will fail. Having common interests is important in any relationship, even among siblings. Having divergent interests allows for discussion to happen, explaining the basics, then recounting events that the other party did not experience. It allows for a girl to show her devotion by going along (occasionally, rarely) to something she really doesn’t like, and only the One she serves has a clue about her true feelings. There will always be things for just the Free, for just Men, and frankly, in her opinion, things that slaves do and Men want no part of doing. Those divergences keep interest piqued, no matter how many things Man and slave may enjoy together. At it’s most basic, to her? Man and slave have a relationship based on an enjoyed dynamic that celebrates the differences between Men and women while drawing both closer together. Being able to talk about Trek and other things together is great. But not everything needs to be, or should be, shared.

Any obsession in anyone, no matter how they live their life, can destroy their life. her cousin has three children who hate him, a wife who walked out, and he works just enough to afford an apartment and cheap food, after his mother kicked him out (she let him move back, but set 6 months as the maximum). He’s late 40s and pathetic, his life revolving around playing video games in a room with blackout curtains. her brother is much the same, just a decade younger, childless (thank goodness!), perpetually single (no wonder!), lived off her grandmother’s largesse for almost a decade as an adult, and is obsessed with anime and manga instead of video games. Both are pathetic excuses for humans, let alone men. Players are tolerated because everyone on Gor loves the game. They are still obsessive, and to her they don’t fit into what she views as a Gorean Man: One who chooses His own path (yes) and masters Himself (no). Someone who obsesses over anything to the point that the rest of their life suffers and possibly falls apart is not a benefit to society, and they certainly aren’t mastering themself.

If she may, Master, there is more to that quote. The girl is white silk and approached fearfully, woodenly, which is what the onlineism is based on, in part. Lana is corrected and made to redo the approach, and then she approaches as she would any other. she thinks there’s at least one other quote wants to grab, will edit it in or add it in another comment Master, whichever way You prefer. The exact serve she was taught 16 years is long gone, but this is similar: https://matrixvoom1.wordpress.com/2009/06/14/assassin-serves/ she was taught (and is aware it is an onlineism, just like bazi, sula-ki, karta and many other things): 1. approach the edge of the furs with hands visible, show there is nothing hidden in the girl’s hair, beg to approach His feet 2. kneel just within reach, clearly describing each movement as slow to medium pace, no frills, calm and collected are acceptable while overjoyed is not (unless serving Owner or Owner’s friend) 3. normal beg to serve 4. ask for vessel (leave it with Him, if serving from His feet), clarify anything else as normal 5. hands remain in His sight at all times, body cheating sideways as necessary, glances out to Him and noting His watching are definitely good 6. do not touch the rim of the vessel in any way, do not check it in any way, do not wash hands or touch any part of her body (other than hair during approach and hands on thighs while kneeling), never kiss the vessel or taste anything, no “sweetening” 7. Always default to an unopened bottle or bota when possible and serve from His feet, breaking the seal before Him. Hold the vessel‘s opening away from the body, pointing towards Him until opened and pouring. If serving water or from a tapped cask, note that it’s whichever was last used. she was *not* taught to carry anything upside down, ever. 8. once poured, a drink NEVER leaves His line of sight 9. offer as normal while holding the bottom, some Assassins will grasp the top to lift, others want it set to the side to pick up in Their own time. 10. An Assassin rarely takes a girl unless she’s served Him before and He’s familiar with her. Earning an Assassin’s favor is frequently harder than other Men.

Some like banter with a slave. For her, it seems to go over the line when she says she would bite off His hand. Whether the banter is something a particular Man would enjoy is different for each Man, but Elizabeth goes beyond the pale by threatening and then attempting to hurt Him. This girl also noticed a change in attitude, but found that it was after Elizabeth ate, and that was even more incomprehensible to her than it would be if she softened after use.

When slaves settle disputes between themselves, the balance of power matters. Whose Master has more standing (and so who feels they have more standing in the kennel; also, the thought usually runs that a personal collar conveys more standing than a Home collar), who has a grievance with the other, whether one has support for their side of the disagreement from other slaves or any Free, whether one just doesn't care to engage. This girl has seen too many kennels become toxic when slaves are left alone to solve their own disputes, because it inevitably becomes cliquish or even bullying. When a Free Person who can remain impartial is in the kennels, then disputes can be resolved and They can intervene only when it drags on or when it either threatens to spill into the Home or is causing unrest in the kennels. she imagines that the same thing could happen with a rl Home or community with multiple slaves. she knows they exist, and she knows that no matter how much girls love and support each other, there will be the inevitable squabble. However, she also understands that it takes a strong Man to stand aside and let two of His figure it out, let alone two Men who may not agree.

In this girl's opinion, Aphris is freed to give her standing among the Tuchuks, but she very much doubts that the relationship between the two changed. According to Outlaw, it's not unusual for a Man to free His slave to then make her His FC. There is no marriage, as we know it, on Gor, but there is the institution of the Free Companionship, which is its nearest correspondent. Surprisingly enough, a woman who is bought from her parents, for tarns or gold, is regarded as a Free Companion, even though she may not have been consulted in the transaction. More commendably, a free woman may herself, of her own free will, agree to be such a companion. And it is not unusual for a master to free one of his slave girls in order that she may share the full privileges of Free Companionship. One may have, at a given time, an indefinite number of slaves, but only one Free Companion. Such relationships are not entered into lightly, and they are normally sundered only by death. Outlaw of Gor Page 54 For a woman who can be comfortable being Free, being a Free Companion is the best of both worlds. There is no freer nor higher nor more beautiful woman," I said, "than the Gorean Free Companion. Nomads of Gor Page 290 But perhaps the best quote to demonstrate that their relationship might really not change too much is the following: "This harsh treatment, incidentally, when she is thought to deserve it, may even be inflicted on a free companion, in spite of the fact that she is free and usually much loved. According to the Gorean way of looking at things a taste of the slave ring is thought to be occasionally beneficial to all women, even the exalted free woman. Thus when she has been irratable or otherwise troublesome even a Free Companion may find herself at the foot of the couch looking forward to a pleasant night on the stones, stripped, with neither mat nor blanket, chained to the slave ring precisely as though she were a lowly slave girl. It is the Gorean way of reminding her, should she need to be reminded, that she, too, is a woman, and thus to be dominated, to be subject to men. Should she be tempted to forget this basic fact of Gorean life the slave ring set in the bottom of each Gorean couch is there to refresh her memory." Priest Kings of Gor page 67 Other women would not fare as well if they were freed, in her opinion. she thinks that Kamchak knows that Aphris will not revert to the person she was and the attitude she had before. In the Tuchuk camp, she won't be in the same location with the same luxuries, and she would be less likely to default to what made her unbearable before.

she can agree with that, in some ways, so 5, Master. she can respect anyone else's expertise. she can respect the way that someone interacts with friends and family. she can respect the practices and habits that make someone who they are. For those, she can't say less than 5. However, to respect a Man who purports to be Gorean as a Gorean Man? she agrees that only a strong Man, a Man who masters Himself first before mastering her, a Man who drops her to her knees with a look, a word or just by being Himself... that is the Man that she respects as a Gorean Man, a Master who she wants to serve instead of feeling an obligation, a Man whom inspires her to be more and better. And that Man? He's the one that does bring her to utter defeat, in that He is the one who makes her belly fire, makes her cry when she feels she's displeased Him, and makes her twist and turn and worry while trying her best to please.

she thinks this is amazing, Lady, loves this.